Stay The Same : A Post For Women (A Little Feminist)

When I was young I used to sing this a lot.Of course, back then, I just liked the beat.Little did I know that this song would be like my daily mantra years later.

There are always those days when I'd wake up, check myself out in the mirror, then end up slouched on the couch because I'm not satisfied with what I saw.I've been blogging about this for as long as I could remember,but I just couldn't stop.

I just want all of us to realize that the fact alone that we were born girls, ladies, women is proof enough that we are all beautiful.

Some women undergo plastic surgery to change whatever it is that they do not like about them. I am not saying it is wrong, I mean, sure, go ahead if you have the money, right?What I'm saying is that it's not other peope's fault that you are unhappy about yourself. It is of your own doing. If you embrace and learn to love yourself,flaws and all,then you'll never be less than perfect.

I know what you're thinking: that these are just words and I'm some kind of a hypocrite for writing it this way,right? Yes, these are just words, and that is my whole point in the first place. These words are waiting for you to give power to them,to give meaning to their existence. Otherwise, they would all just remain words. Second, I am not a hypocrite,because I know I am not perfect. I don't have porcelain skin nor beautiful feet, and my hair doesn't always stay in place,but frankly,I couldn't care less.For as long as I know I'm taking good care of this physical body that God has given me,and I'm doing my best to look my best without scientifically altering anything,then I'm good to go.

Of course there would still be those typical times when I'd say,I wish I look like her, I wish I have this and that,but when those times come, instead of going off about the things that I wish were better or the things I don't have,I keep my focus on the things I have,the things I like about myself, and the things that make me,me.

After all,I would never cease to believe that there is someone in this world who's looking for exactly what and who I am right now,so I don't have to change anything for anyone to actually like me.Because physical beauty doesn't necessarily reflect a beautiful soul,but a beautiful soul shines through,and gives us this colorful aura that surrounds us and makes us glow and stand out from the crowd. ;)