The Problem with Guys

At the age of nineteen, I could say I've been through a lot. Not really a lot, but enough to say it's a lot.

What I hate most, though, is the fact that I've given everything till I get tired, and then, in the end, I will still be the one at fault. Why me? Why don't you ask yourself what you might have done that made me be like this?

I've had a few relationships with different kinds of guys before. Most were platonic, of course. I've always preferred guys over girls for friends.Some were romantic, and some of these were abusive in a way.

The problem with guys is that they don't believe it when I say I'm just friends with a specific guy. they always speculate, and I was like, can't I be friends with him without malice? Because that's just the way it is. We're just friends and nothing more, and some people just can't accept the fact that MY world, yes, stress on the possessive pronoun,please-just doesn't revolve around them. This is my first rule when it comes to relationships. Respect my friendship with other people, be they guys or girls, and never make me choose, because sorry, I just wouldn't choose you.

The problem with guys is that they do not say what they really feel. Yes, I'm the queen of second thoughts,because you're the king of mixed signals. One moment, you make me feel important, and the next, you're completely ignoring me. What's up with that?Some guys nowadays expect us girls to always take care of what's needed to be done. Hello? Whatever happened to good old gentle manliness?

The problem with guys is that they act like they're God's gifts to women. Which certainly is not true.Men, without women, are just plain drunken alcohol loving masochists who think they're so great but will absolutely fail in everything. Trust me on that.You need us to, not just to wash your clothes or prepare your meals, we're not your personal assistants. You need us to make you feel complete, because yes, however successful you become, no matter how far you've gone to, at the end of the day, you'll always look forward to going home and finding the real reason for your success, which is what a woman is, so yeah, suck that. You are not God's gift to us. It's absolutely the other way around.

The problem with guys is that they blame us girls for doing something wrong, and then blame us again if we try correcting what we did wrong and end up breaking up with them. Ha! This much I'm sure of. Somebody kept telling the world how it hurts him that I don't care anymore, and I was like, "What the hell?" It was his fault, not mine. Hidden in his words was the tone of blame,pointed towards me. What a jerk. What do you expect me to do, huh? Sulk in a corner, wallow in misery for losing you? Sorry, but I'm just so happy to get rid of you. Because of the tears you made me cry, and the fact that you thought so lowly of me.Of course,what kind of girl would be happy to know that her guy thinks she's out there somewhere, constantly flirting with someone she barely knew? Is there such a girl? Well, yeah, maybe. But that's just not me. So stay there and get over me. I hate you just about as much as you love me.

The problem with guys is that they show us that they love us, when they get what they want, they'd leave us, when they see we're not affected, they'd come crawling back to us, and repeat the whole process until we end up crying for them. Yeah. Duh. There are so many jerks in the world nowadays. Hard to look for a needle in a haystack,it's true. But when you find it, it's totally worth the search. As for me, I'm happy with my life now. I just hope these people from the past would stop bugging me and just go on with their lives.They had their chances with me,and they ruined it. Haha. Ain't I just soooo great? Duh.