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Saturday, January 9, 2010

When Black Gets Mixed with White,Everything Turns Gray

What I mean is, when friendship turns to love,everything goes wrong.

Some people say that love's best foundation is friendship.First you become friends,and the rest is history.Love stories of this kind often last forever.They say mainly because you have come to know each other that you grow comfortable together.But I wonder what happens when you fall in love with a friend who doesn't feel the same?

POSSIBILITY I:
You would suppress your feelings and just keep it to yourself, knowing it would destroy your friendship.
Most people do this because it's the safest option we have.The risks are surely not worth a shot,knowing that when you tell him you love him and he doesn't love you back,something will change.Whether one or both of the parties admit or deny it,clearly,your comfort with each other will never be the same.He or you might not be able to look at each other without feeling betrayed or hurt,thus ruining the friendship.Some people satisfy themselves with friendship,than nothing at all.


POSSIBILITY II:
You would tell him your true feelings and end up getting hurt.
Just like what I said in the first possibility,just because you love someone doesn't mean he loves you back.You get the picture,someone's in love,someone clearly just wants the friendship,so conflicts start building up in the surface.Someone gets their hopes up that someday,the other one might fall for her too if she just tried hard enough to make him,while he assumes that someday she might just fall out of love and find someone new.

POSSIBILITY III:
You would tell him your true feelings,and find out that he feels the same.
Ahh.The joy of happy endings. So you tell him you love him,and voila!God loves you so much that this boy loves you back.If this is what happens,isn't it so worth it to try and tell him while you have the chance?After all,you are friends with him,you don't have to pretend to be someone else around him.You just might hope that you will have your own line of "and they live happily ever after" in the book of your lives.

POSSIBILITY IV:

You would not tell him you love him for fear of losing a friend,little did you know that he loves you too,but he won't tell you for fear of losing you as a friend.
This could be the saddest love story in time.This is the point where I would like to bang two people's heads together to wake them up to reality.When you love someone,why would you fear anything?What do you lose by telling them?Everybody likes being adored,though no one will admit it (no one except me,I guess).How will you know the way it will turn out if you never tried?If it ends up badly,go on with your life,at least you wouldn't spend the rest of it wondering of what might have been.If it turns out to be good,how would you feel?Indescribable.You will realize in the end that everything's worth fighting for.You don't lose unless you quit.If you tried,even if you lose something,you know you will always win.You will always have something to gain.

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